Double standards in dating
Though I will admit that things are not as bad as they used to be we still have plenty of room to grow.
Don’t get me wrong, it isn’t that I want to see everybody go out and be all over the place sexually so to speak.
Again my message in this article is not about whether it is right or wrong to live how we please sexually.
It is about holding both men and women to the same standard of character.
America is the place for freedom, liberty, and equality…unless we are talking women, sex, and relationships.
Honestly we don’t do a great job of it in many other areas but let us focus on women, sex and relationships.
I have seen men use this tactic on women in so many ways and I have seen it work to perfection.
I just understand that most of us don’t make it that far, and I do not believe women should receive harsher judgment than men. Some of the biggest supporters of the double standard are women themselves.Women continue to get the short end of the stick and have to deal with an unfair double standard that has been around for centuries.We men are allowed to “sow our oats” while if a woman dares go down that path she better be ready for some backlash.Last I checked I have yet to see any spiritual text stating “thou shall not fornicate, unless you’re a man”. All of these things play into the continuation of the same double standard that so many women are upset about.If you want to put an end to it then it must start with yourself.
Previously I wrote a blog post titled “Why How Many Men She Slept With Shouldn’t Matter” and it has received a lot of attention.