Signs you re dating a loser
You have to sit back and either listen to excuses that explain his loser behavior, or you have to listen to constant complaining about his loser behavior.
Pay close attention to her stories-- they tell you how you will eventually be treated and what's coming your way if you stay with her.
By ignoring his BS behavior, you’re basically saying you’re OK with dating a loser. If he’s constantly making critical comments about your looks, personality, or intelligence but brushes it off with a quick, “Just kidding,” get out of there.
Playful teasing can be fun, but if he doesn’t respect you enough to respect your feelings, then I’m not kidding when I say this guy is a loser. Unless you’re dating a guy who works 60 hours a week and perhaps lives in a cave, he can take a minute or two out of his day to text or call you.
This doesn’t mean you should expect or demand attention from him constantly, but if he’s making zero effort to reach out to you, he might just be a loser.
If he has time to take a trip to the BS’er, he has time to text you. Having the occasional boys’ night out or one-on-one with his friends is normal, but if getting an invite from this guy is equivalent to winning the lottery, then he probably doesn’t want you there. He gets a little too pushy when you’re not in the mood, and has trouble giving up. You’re overreacting.” Perhaps his sleepover (or whatever the issue may be) is completely innocent.